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5 Sex Positions That Are Perfect For A Threesome

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So you’re going to have a threesome. Maybe it’s the first time, maybe it’s the thousandth. Maybe the last attempt didn’t go as smoothly as you wanted. Maybe you and your partner just want to make sure no one’s toes get stepped on this time. Whatever the scenario: We’re here for you.

Threesome might actually be more common than you think: In a 2016 survey of 274 heterosexual people ages 18 to 24, 24 percent of men and 8 percent of women reported previous threesome experience, while 82 percent of guys and 31 percent of women said that they’d be into exploring the possibility. Which is to say, there’s definitely interest out there in a good ol’ ménage à trois.

But interest alone does not a successful threesome make: Speaking with eight people who’d involved themselves in threeways, Women’s Health found that most participants walked away from their encounters feeling satisfied and happy, but some viewed the enterprise as confusing, weird, and relationship-complicating. And certainly, maneuvering with all those limbs in play can get a little awkward. So how do you keep things hot?

“One thing in threeways you want to remember is that these roles of giving and receiving can change and change and change and change,” Dossie Easton, L.M.F.T., a psychotherapist, relationship counselor, and author, tells Women’s Health. “If you are doing more giving at this time, you can be doing more receiving later, but there’s no limit to how much time you spend. We’re not in a hurry here, we’re not being efficiency experts. This is about pleasure.”

“The important thing is how do people feel, and what feels good, what feels comfortable to people, what feels inclusive, how do people feel confident giving,” she added. To that end, communication is key. Try the yes, no, maybe exercise: As a group, list out all the sex acts you can think of, then individually make lists of things you like, things you don’t, and things you’d maybe try under specific conditions. Tell your partners what makes you orgasm, and ask them what their bodies like best. Make sure everyone is included throughout the session, and give your partners feedback, Easton says. In a threeway, the lines of communication should be open before, during, and after.

And in the process of figuring out what people will consent to, it might help to familiarize yourselves with a few basic moves going into the act, with an eye toward keeping movement fluid. But once you get started, talk to one another as you move along, and positions will flow more naturally from one to the next.

PENETRATION + STIMULATION

Magical O Position

In a male-male-female (MMF) or female-female-male (FFM) arrangement, one person can penetrate a partner, whether vaginally or anally, while the other strokes erogenous zones on their fellow participants, Annette Gates—a certified somatic sex educator and relationship coach—tells Women’s Health. “A male could be penetrating with penis and having pressure applied to perineum, testicles massaged or licked, and anal penetration,” Gates says. Women might enjoy nipple play, clitoral stimulation, even a little rimming, during penetration.

For FFM trios, the Magical O—in which the two women lie on top of one another and play with each others’ bodies while the guy enters the woman on top from behind—works well.

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DOUBLE PENETRATION

Double Penetration
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For MMF triads, Easton warns, double penetration can be “kind of advanced work” because figuring out where all the knees go is trickier than it looks. That said, double penetration needn’t necessarily require two penises.

“A female [in FFM or MMF] could be receiving double penetration vaginally and anally, with finger or penis,” Gates points out. You can always use some of the many hands a threesome involves to achieve the same effect, if positioning proves too difficult.

With that in mind, MMF couples might try double penetration with one of the men lying prone: The woman can climb on top and ride him while the second man enters her anally from behind. In FFM arrangements, one woman can digitally penetrate the other’s anus, or use a dildo or strap-on.

DAISY CHAIN

Daisy Chain
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One thing to always keep in mind, Easton says, is that a threesome has six hands and three mouths to work with. While she personally finds it easier to concentrate on one-to-one oral pleasure, the Daisy Chain presents a solid opportunity to make use of all your mouths. It’s also easy to execute.

Each participant lies on their side with their face at their neighbor’s crotch, forming a circle. Woman one performs oral sex on the man, who is performing oral sex on woman two, who is performing oral sex on woman one; or, the woman performs oral sex on man one, who is performing oral sex on man two, who is performing oral sex on the woman.

DOUBLE ORAL

Double Oral
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Whether you’re an FFM or MMF triad, perhaps consider performing mutual fellatio on one (or both) of your penis-having partners, recommends Easton. One person can take the shaft while another sucks on the testes, or both can lick at once, or you can switch from mouth to mouth.

Eiffel Tower Sex Position
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Arguably the best known of all the threesome positions, the Eiffel Tower blends oral and penetrative sex: If you’re in an MMF arrangement, the woman assumes doggy position while one man penetrates her from behind and she gives the third partner a blow job.

If you’re in an FFM triad, have the man lie on his back while one partner rides him and the other sits on his face. The women can also lean forward to stimulate another from this vantage point, keeping everyone entirely in the mix.

Plus, as Easton points out, keeping one person up by the prone party’s head allows for easier communication. “Periodically stop and check in, get up to the person’s head and check in with them, just to make sure they’re still where you think they are,” she advises. “So to have somebody pleasuring the person’s genitals and have somebody else up near their head, either playing with their mouth or their neck or their nipples or whatever, gives a kind of extra connection.”

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My girlfriend sent me a text message meant for someone else

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A man has taken to a popular Nigerian forum to write on how his girlfriend mistakenly sent him a text message meant for someone else.

In his narration, he revealed that he recently met the lady, 2 weeks precisely, and it was all smooth at the initial stage, only for her to change her reaction towards him after she left for another state and stopped communicating with him as she used to do.

My girlfriend sent me a text message meant for someone else

He wrote:

Ok, let me make this as short as possible as I need urgent insight.

I met this girl 2weeks ago through a friend. We had casual chat, then I noticed my friend was always saying good things about her (I got the hint the lady must have incited him to do that so I’ll pick interest).
On meeting (by coincidence) a second time we exchanged numbers, I dnt know how she did it but she got under my skin in a flash. We went on dates twice in a week and the most shocking fact was she footed the bills. (I didn’t like that fact tho, but she gets angry when I protest).

Fast-forwarded to few days ago, she travelled back to the west where she works and started acting weird. Actually they were really subtle changes but my 6th sense has a way of magnifying such anomalies, painting vivid pictures. She stopped calling as she does, misses my call without calling back, starts speaking Ibo when she’s on phone with me around her colleagues and many more of such acts. I acted cool and matured by not jumping into conclusions.

This evening*
I got a text from her which read “Smiles, lovey-dovey. and where is he going to??”.

Normal me would ignore the text and wait for her to come up with flimsy excuses before I flay her, but am scared she would have time to cook-up a coverup story if I don’t point it out that I SEE HER.
whats ur opinion guys.
sorry for the lenghty write and typos tho

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How my girlfriend got pregnant for my childhood friend

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A man who is just healing from the heart wounds he received after his girlfriend got pregnant for his childhood friend, has taken to social media to narrate on the sad incident.

The man, based in Lagos, had been transferred at his work place to the Eastern part of the country where he stayed for 2 years and by the time he relocated back to Lagos, she had been pregnant for someone else, only for him to discover later it was his childhood friend, who had even absconded.

How my girlfriend got pregnant for my childhood friend – Man narrates

He wrote:

I was dating this girl before the company I was working with transfered me to the East for a suppose 5years. While I was was there, i constantly keep in touch. I at least speak with her 3times a day over the phone. While on some weekends, i will take a night bus 2 Lagos on.

Friday evening to return on Sunday evening and I will practically head straight to the office on Monday morning from the park. After a year and 3 months to be precise, she called one evening and said she was tired of long distance relationship and that I should forget about ..

I jump on a night bus the following Friday, lounged in an hotel (I was always in an hotel because I didn’t want my parent to know I was in Lagos) and had to beg my friend to persuade and bring her to the hotel and had to plead and pet her and we were back on track

Before I accepted to go on transfer I confided in her and she accepted I should go. Left for me I was ready to quit the job and get something else doing even when i was still saddle with the responsibility of paying her fees from first year to her third year and even after the..

Transfer, I was still paying her way through school….love ehhh……and then, finally, after 7months of which have been to Lagos as usual 6times in between she sent me text saying she has moved on. That was the last time I could reach her on phone.

The line was permanently switched off and I tried every other means to reach her but could not…..mehnnnn I was miserable…….to love is to make sacrifice and I paid with my last coin, but never again

After 2years, and 3months. I received a letter form the head office in Lagos that my work there was done and I had to return to Lagos…before then, I already applied for a month leave which was approved together with the letter to return to Lagos

A day after I was in Lagos…. I immediately started a stop and search mission when I ran into her friend who accepted to take me to were she was only if I promise her I won’t let her know she was the one who led me to her…..sharperly, I comply.

On getting there, She (her friend) showed me the house from afar and also describe the the door to knock. Like a roaring lion, sped into the building and knocked on the exact door as I was told….and behold she came to check who was at the door with a big tommy. She was pregnant.

The longest minutes of my life. I was glue to the floor. I couldn’t go in neither was I able to go back…finally my foot were loosed and I have to leave. At this time I was already soaked with sweat. I dashed into the street and her friend was still around waiting for me.

She ask we seat out in the nearest bar to tell me what actually transpired. That was the first day I tasted alcohol and I drank to stupor. She got pregnant for my childhood friend, who refused the pregnancy and took off. All I knew was that I found myself at the hospital.

While i was at the hospital, she was rushed to the same hospital while she was in labour.( I too get conscience). After her delivery, she couldn’t afford the bills and out of pity not for her but for the Innocent baby, I had to pay. And before I left the hospital.

Its took me years to get over the trauma……and when I finally did, starting a relationship has been by far the hardest thing to do. ever since My life has been work, work and work and when am not working am indoor. This is my story.

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Husband list six rules to a happy union

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A man identified as, Ryan Stephens. has taken to Twitter to list six rules to a happy union.

According to Ryan, he and his wife sees themselves as teammates and less of soul mates, this he says is the recipe for marital success.

Dishing out the six rules to a happy union, he wrote;

My wife and I have found that focusing more on being teammates and less on being soulmates is a solid recipe for marital success.

Here’s quick thread on the 6 rules we try to follow to be a good teammate to each other in our marriage.

1.) No one should ever hear anything bad about your spouse from you.

It’s one thing to joke with friends about something trivial and quite another to demean your spouse’s character.

Know the difference and always discuss the latter with your spouse and no one else.

2.) Over communicate.

You cannot read each other’s minds.

Never assume the other person knows what you meant.

Give each other the benefit of the doubt when miscommunications happen.

Double check if necessary.

3.) Try new things together.

Even if one of you is typically more adventurous than the other, have fun with it.

Trying new things gets an individual out of their comfort zone and is often easier as a couple, allowing you both to grow stronger together.

4.) Be each other’s champion. Celebrate wins and encourage each other.

Bring home champagne after a promotion at work, back each other up when engaging in that battle with your heathen toddler, work out together, etc.

Never cut the other person down when they’re struggling.

5.) Be grateful for each other’s contributions.

Whether it be money, time, chores, childcare, or anything else, no one contribution is greater than another.

And don’t keep score.

If you truly value each other’s input, then the scorecard shouldn’t (and doesn’t) matter.

6. Trust and respect each other.

Especially in front of others, including your children.

If you do not respect your spouse in front of other people, why should those people respect your spouse?

Enough said.

What do you think guys?

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